How do you motivate yourself when you are not in the mood?

Motivation is rather elusive, isn’t it? Some days you feel it, and other days you can’t grab a measly corner of it no matter how hard you try. You stare at the computer screen, willing yourself to type, create, develop, and instead you find yourself simply going through the motions, barely caring about the work you’re producing. Needless to say, you’re totally uninspired, and you don’t know how to make yourself feel otherwise.

We have all been there at some point and yearning for some way to dig up that lost motivation and get a job not just done—but completed with a sense of passion. Read on for seven tips and tricks that’ll get you motivated in no time.

1. Create Small, Bite-Sized Goals
There’s a reason donut holes are so lovable. They’re easy to eat. Before you know it, you’ve eaten a dozen of them. This is how goals should be too. Of course you should have a really big, audacious goal. But make sure you break down that goal into bite-sized, consumable goals. This way you’ll feel like you’re making progress in your journey and you’ll also feel a sense of accomplishment when you complete the smaller goals. A feeling of progress and achievement is a beautiful combination.

2. Read Daily
Make sure you carve out time in your day to read. (I recommend the early mornings before everyone is awake.) Read for at least one hour a day. If that’s too much, start with 20 minutes [a day] and do it for one month (habit). Develop a belief that reading is the quickest way to success. It will make reading a breeze, and extremely fun/rewarding (if you’re driven by success). The most successful people in the world attribute their success to reading a lot of books (Warren Buffet, Bill Gates, Elon Musk).

3. Stop Caring About the Things That Don’t Matter
Doing things that don’t mean anything costs [us] a ton of mental energy. Look at your aggregated to-do list, find things you know that you don’t care about, and get rid of as many of these activities as possible. You will stay more consistently motivated if you’re working on activities that are inherently meaningful or are part of a larger mission.

4. Set a Quit Time
Entrepreneurs tend to stray from the typical 8 to 5 workday, and global accessibility through emails and Skype makes it more than easy to have a 24-hour workday. But it’s important to recognize when enough is enough. Set a realistic quitting time for yourself, and stick to it most days of the week. Stop answering emails after 8 PM, or take Sundays off. You’ll feel more refreshed and more productive when you allow yourself some down time.

5. Celebrate Wins
Start acknowledging all the good you are doing. Don’t discount the little things. I mean, how many times do you scold yourself for doing something small that wasn’t perfect? How often do you think the good things such as being on time, or signing a new client is simply how it’s meant to be? They need celebrating. You need more wins in your life. This will motivate you, encourage you, and help you see how brilliant you truly are.

To me, the last one works best. Celebrate those wins. It doesn’t have to be elaborate, a simple treat eg a nice gift, dinner with friends, a good old beer or a song. Whatever that you like so that you associate these wins to the pleasant experience that motivates you to work even harder. Keep trying!

Check out my related post: Do you procrastinate?


Interesting reads:

https://www.bustle.com/articles/136318-7-ways-to-motivate-yourself-when-youre-feeling-lazyhttps://www.bustle.com/articles/136318-7-ways-to-motivate-yourself-when-youre-feeling-lazy

https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-motivate-yourself-to-work-harder-2014-10

https://www.cleverism.com/how-to-motivate-yourself-to-work-hard/

https://www.themuse.com/advice/7-ways-to-motivate-yourself-to-work-hard-when-youre-really-not-in-the-mood

https://www.samuelthomasdavies.com/how-to-get-motivated-when-youre-not-in-the-mood/

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