Sometimes, all we need to achieve our goals is the occasional reminder. Breaking routine is tough, you know? That little nudge could be something as simple as a sticky note, phone notification, or even the unblinking eye of a disembodied painted head prominently displayed on your mantle. Whatever works for you.
The traditional Japanese Daruma dolls are unlikely little devices that have been helping people accomplish their goals for centuries. The doll, also called a Dharma doll, is a hollow, round, paper mache ball modeled after Bodhidharma, the founder of the Zen sect of Buddhism. (Er, modeled after his head, anyway.) The defining feature of the doll is its white, empty eyes.
As a popular story goes, Bodhidharma once sat down to practice extreme meditation, which turned into a nine-year stint. It was so intense that his limbs atrophied and fell off his body. Before all that disaster, Bodhidharma realized a way to prevent succumbing to sleep during meditation: He cut off his eyelids. He then tossed them, where they became tea plants, the source of a modern way to stave off sleepiness. Equal parts extreme and graphic, this legend teaches a much more practical, easier-to-stomach lesson: the willingness to dedicate yourself to an important project can be life-changing.
The doll is closely associated with the Japanese proverb “Nana korobi yaoki,” which translates to, “Fall down seven times, get up eight.” Since the thing is spherical, it literally cannot be knocked over no matter how hard you try, which is a reminder of persistence. Never give up, is the larger message of the Daruma. Unless you’re trying to knock your paper head over, in which case, call it a day.
Here’s how you can utilize a Daruma doll (also charmingly referred to as a goal doll):
- Think of a specific goal you’re trying to accomplish and get yourself a Daruma doll. According to WE LOVE DARUMA, different colors correspond to various types of goals, so get granular.
- Paint in the left eye to signify your commitment to this goal. Write your goal on the back of the doll too, if you need that extra reminder. Now the thing looks like a little pirate-y, but stick with us.
- Place your Daruma in a highly visible spot in your home. While he focuses on your goal, you are reminded by his “Tell-Tale Heart”-esque empty, following eye that you have work to do.
- Once you’ve achieved your goal, paint in your doll’s blank right eye. Goodbye, pirate face.
- Thank the Daruma and revel in the satisfaction of completing its set of eyeballs. If you’re hardcore, you can follow the custom and bring it to a temple and burn it in a huge bonfire. What’s next? New day, new doll.
Not sure whether it works but just wanted to share the history and origins of the doll that you can find across Japan at various stores. Good luck!
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